Haughty liberal professional columnist persisting in a haughty conservative town.
I answer sex & relationship questions at DearLadyA.com.
*also known for cat pics, lifestyle columns, ranting blogs and pinup photos.
I also have a weekly column and I'm a contributing writer at Chicago Phoenix, the Midwest's largest online source for #LGBTQ (and ally) news.
Sexpert, Mistress, Smartypants, Pinup, Kinkster, Nerdsexual, Bisexual, Queer, Fruit Fly, Day Drag Wearer.
Labels are time-saving fun, but don't take them too seriously, kittens.
I live my life as if I am Katherine Hepburn...Or Krusty the Clown, depending on the day.
Stuff I like (all)
- “Beautiful sadness is a myth. Sadness turns our features to clay, not porcelain.”— David Levithan, Every Day
- “I let it go. It’s like swimming against the current. It exhausts you. After a while, whoever you are, you just have to let go, and the river brings...”